Ni ibisanzwe kubona abantu bitoza bambaye imyenda ifunze mu cyumba cy’imyitozo ngororamubiri. Ntabwo ushobora kubona neza uko ibintu bigenda gusa, ahubwo binafasha cyane mu "gushushanya" imirongo n'imirongo.
Mu bitekerezo by'abantu, kwambara imyenda ipfutse mu maguru bisa nkaho ari “Ngiye muri siporo” cyangwa “Ngiye muri siporo uyu munsi”
Muri rusange, imyenda ya siporo ifite ibyiza bikurikira.
1. Ushobora kubona neza uko uhagaze no kwemeza ko ugenda neza. Mu myenda isanzwe, bishobora kugorana kubona ibisobanuro birambuye ku bijyanye no gukora iyo myitozo iyo hari imyitozo isaba "guhagarara inyuma neza" cyangwa "inguni yo gupfuka ivi no kuringaniza". Kandi imyenda ifunze ishobora kuba uburyo bwiza bwo kubona uko uhagaze. Kandi imyenda ntizacika intege, bigabanya ibyago byo gufatwa kw'imyenda.
2. Kuba ushobora kubona neza imbaraga n'intege nke z'umubiri wawe birushaho gutuma urushaho kunoza. Kubera ko bikwiranye neza, uzamenya imbaraga n'intege nke z'umubiri wawe ako kanya. Urugero, ingano y'umubiri, bamwe mu bantu batakora imyitozo ngororamubiri y'amaguru yabo bazamenya ko amaguru yabo adakomeye iyo bambaye imyenda igoye. Ku bijyanye n'ibyiza, imyenda igoye ishobora gutuma abagabo basa neza n'abagabo n'abagore bakarushaho kuba beza… birashishikaje cyane.
3. Komera ibyuya kandi ubishyire mu bushyuhe. Imyenda ikoreshwa irakurura ibyuya kandi ihumeka neza, kandi ntabwo izapfukirana. Byongeye kandi, ubushyuhe butuma umuntu ahora ashyushye ni bwiza cyane, kandi mu gihe cy'itumba ntabwo ihora ikonje cyane.
4. Igitambaro gifite ubushobozi bwo kugorora kigendana nawe, kandi ntikizacika mu gihe cyo kugenda. Iki ni ikintu cyiza cyane. Abantu benshi batabonye umwanya wo guhindura imyenda bajya muri siporo, kandi bagomba kuba bicuritse, cyangwa bafite impungenge ko ipantaro yabo izacika.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Gashyantare-16-2023
